DATING ADVICE

How You Can Sweep a Ukrainian Off Her Feet

Lubov Demchuk
5 min readAug 17, 2023

The art of charming women is a difficult skill to acquire. Even more so if the woman comes from another culture.

Ukrainian women have intrigued men for decades. Many of these men live far away from Ukraine, and they aren’t used to dealing with one face to face.

Which is why the Singles’ Tour may be what you need to get you started with dating Ukrainian women.

With first rate accommodations, a carefully crafted itinerary, and a team of experienced matchmakers, the odds are certainly in your favor.

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Since you may be meeting beautiful Ukrainian women for the first time, you should at least have some basic knowledge in Ukrainian dating culture, all before stepping foot in Ukraine and joining the Singles’ tour.

Here are a few important tips for you to work your way into their hearts:

Keep It Old Fashioned

Ukraine favors the traditional. When it comes to gender roles, its society is inclined to classic views. Ukrainian women expect their partners to display base limits of masculinity, confidence, and chivalry. These things can be shown by pulling out her chair and offering your coat when it gets cold. If you have at least an honest, stable living, you are several degrees attractive to them.

You don’t exactly have to be a typical macho man. So as long as you are a gentleman and you have the initiative to look after a lady, you can definitely hold your own.

Crack A Joke Or Two

Men with a sense of humor are more likely to find love than those who are dry and humorless. Bring your unique sense of humor and wit to your date.

Notably, humor is often culturally based. What is funny in one place may be nonsensical in another. Language barriers sometimes get in the way, resulting in jokes not being understood or translated properly.

Watching local comedians can help you brush up on Ukrainian humor if you want to charm Ukrainian women. If you learn what makes Ukrainians laugh, you can deliver jokes the same way.

Of course, your eagerness to bring a smile regardless of the language barrier should merit yourself a few solid points.

Dress to Impress

What makes Ukrainian women so beautiful? They make an effort to look their best, especially when dating. A guy who wants to date a Ukrainian woman should take care of his appearance as well.

However, that doesn’t mean you should get a blowout at a salon. Make an effort to look presentable. Wash your face, brush your hair, shave if need be — all the basic things to look clean.

There’s more to grooming than just basic hygiene. You should also dress well when you’re dating. Dress in clean clothes that are wrinkle-free and stain-free.

A good fit is also important. Overly big clothes will appear baggy and unflattering. Having clothing that is too small can be uncomfortable and restrict your mobility.

In addition to looking well-groomed, dressing well conveys the ability to take care of yourself.

Dressing well is important to Ukrainian girls. Dressing for comfort has value for many people, but women in Ukraine dress to look their best. Ukrainian men tend to overlook this aspect, which leads to dissatisfaction among women who are interested in them.

Foot the Bill When You Are Out on Dates

Current western practices indicate that the man footing the bill entirely is a thing of the past. But in Ukraine, it’s simply common practice. There is no such thing as going Dutch with these ladies. As a true gentleman, you’re going to have to shoulder the bill.

Paying for everything also shows a sense of financial security and willingness to take responsibility for your household. This assures the lady you are dating that she will be well cared for.

Don’t Fake Kindness — Be Genuine

Ukrainian women have a tendency to be proud. While they may not be overly proud, they know their value. In other words, a man who wants to date one needs to respect their worth and recognize their innate qualities.

You don’t have to worship the ground at her feet, but don’t make her feel inferior to you in any way. Women will not want to date a man who makes them feel disrespected in the future.

Make it a point to treat a woman from Ukraine with the respect she deserves if you’re dating her.

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Ukrainian women are particular to men who aren’t polite towards staff. There’s a well-understood notion called the waiter rule — if you’re at a business lunch or dinner and someone is polite to you, but rude to the waiter, then they’re feigning politeness so that they can get something from you.

Extend your courtesy to more than just your date. You should also be courteous to everyone around you.

Be Firm In Your Decisions

Don’t change your mind once you’ve made a decision. Women in Ukraine are turned off by indecisive men more than anything else. If you’re constantly second-guessing your decisions, whether justified or not, that’ll pass on to your date. She might be unsure of whether you are to be trusted or not.

A Little Confidence Can Go A Long Way

It’s not that you should become arrogant, but you should have the ability to look people in the eye without feeling uneasy. With charm, confidence comes naturally to many people.

The best way to express confidence is to feel confident despite struggles you’re going through.

Let’s say you aren’t confident in yourself because of your height. You can add insoles to your shoes to give you additional height. Looking the part can project confidence even if you don’t have the confidence that comes with it.

You don’t have to be towering over people. Sometimes, being proud of getting over your insecurities is more than enough to project confidence.

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