DATING
How to Tell Whether She’s Faking It
Men can sometimes have a hard time understanding the mystery of their woman.
It does not necessarily mean you are paranoid for wondering whether or not she is more into you than the idea of having you as her boyfriend.
Sadly, this is common in the world of online dating. You get yourself a woman, you lavish her with gifts or whatever you can think of to keep her in your life, and the next thing you know, you’re subconsciously stuck wondering whether she appreciates you or your material assets.
Ukraine is one of those countries with more women than men. As a result, a lot of the women there prefer to date western men, as they are more than capable of meeting their emotional and financial needs.
These women are impressed with the way western men are responsible and opinionated. Still, a good number of these men find themselves going back to their home country with empty wallets.
Why does this keep happening, and what can we do to avoid this?
If you are in search of real love, it is important to determine whether or not the woman you are seeing is good for your well-being. Plus, it’s not just for your own good, but also for the sake of both of you as a pair.
A long-lasting and healthy relationship is when two people mutually understand each other and take responsibility. As such, to know if you’re not putting yourself in a trainwreck situation, take note of the green and red flags.
Look for noticeable green flags that say she’s into you.
Ukrainian women are known to be independent, clever, and humorous in nature. Despite their strong character, they don’t hold back in showing their affection, even through their body language.
A woman’s eyes say it all, but to them, actions speak more than words. When they like someone, the way they move makes it obvious. Sometimes, way too obvious.
You’ll notice that she’ll use any excuse to initiate any form of physical contact with you.
There could be subtle touchy-feely moments like the way she touches your hand or shoulder. Due to their sensitive nature, small gestures like this spark joy in them.
Another way to tell whether your Ukrainian woman is genuinely into you is the way she spreads the word about you to her friends and family.
She would also listen to you attentively, and you would feel her eager willingness to get to know you in the way she responds to what you’re saying. Her reaction would greatly resonate with the subject you’re discussing.
Most importantly, she would want to spend more time with you.
When you are with her, you will feel her dedication and commitment to your relationship, which basically says what she feels for you.
Test her feelings.
While it’s good to watch out for her words and gestures, it’s also a good idea to be aware of what is happening in your relationship.
You might want to test her reaction by suggesting that you move to her country rather than getting her to move to yours. Although she might get a little upset and disappointed, she would likely work on that idea somewhere in her mind once her disappointment boils down.
This is also a way for you to determine whether you and your partner want the same thing from one another.
Another thing that you can do is control your spending on unnecessary things. While it feels good to see your partner’s reaction whenever you get them something special, you don’t want to put yourself in a situation where you become her primary asset.
You can shower her with gifts every now and then, but don’t overdo it.
At the end of the day, these things will help you determine if she’s genuinely into you for your qualities and not for the loads of cash she thinks you have.
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